Musical Chairs – Collaborate or Compete?

Do you remember playing party games as a kid? There are many of them that taught us that being in competition and being the winner is best, perhaps this has led you to feeling like a loser when you’ve come 2nd, 3rd or last! When you get into the habit of competing,...

Do you know how to set boundaries for others?

  Standing looking out onto my garden last April my eyes are drawn to a sudden movement. You know that ability you have to spot the smallest of spiders scurrying across a room late at night! how to set boundaries “Hey Chippy (that’s my husband and no...